Go you on turning something so ugh into something so helpful!!!!

It's so hard in our culture, I think, to sit and listen and not problem-solve (we pay people who sit and listen lots of money, in fact! They're called p-shrinks of various kinds! *grin*). So grateful to you for articulating it all and also for sharing what all up is with you. Really challenging stuff that just sucks, pretty much, but you're attacking it full-on it seems...

Hang in there and remember I'm out here cheering you on.